How Much Does Divorce Cost?

This is one of the most common questions on people’s minds when they first start thinking about getting divorced.  They wonder if they can even afford the divorce cost, or whether it will ruin them financially. Unfortunately, there is no solid answer to this question,…

How To Choose A Good Mediator

How To Choose A Good Mediator

How To Choose A Good Mediator You have decided to get divorced, and you’ve been researching mediation as an option, but there’s one problem–there’s so many mediators! There are the huge law firms with many different mediators, and then there are the individual attorneys, and…

She Had An Affair - There's No Way She'll Get Custody!

If someone’s spouse had an affair, he may often fantasize about getting to punish her in court during divorce proceedings by never letting her see her children, or by “taking her for all she’s worth.” However, it may not work out that way, and it…

10 Divorce Myths You Should Stop Believing

The internet and media are full of myths, misconceptions, and straight out lies when it comes to divorce.  As a divorce mediator and a relationship therapist I run across these all too frequently. So here are my top 10 divorce myths. 1  Having joint (50/50)…

7 Ways To Make The Most Out Of Mediation

Be Prepared for Mediation- Emotionally and Clerically 1 De-Stress Before The Session When you are getting ready for your first mediation session, it is totally normal to feel nervous or on edge. There are several things you can do to try to make the session…

6 Reasons to Choose Mediation Over Litigation

You will save money. Statistics vary, but on average, a contested divorce can cost anywhere from $15,000 – $60,000. I don’t know about you, but that sounds like a ton of money to me. This is in contrast to mediation, which can range on average…